8 Examples Of Dirty Talk to Take Things To The Next Level
Cynthia|March. 25, 2019
1. Orgasm Denial: "You’ll Cum When I Say You Can Cum."
Orgasm denial can be a fun way to play with power, and it can make the final release that much more intense.
2. Domination: "Shut Your Mouth Or I’ll Leave You Tied Up And Walk Away."
Obviously, this one (like them all) will require some advance discussion and planning to make sure everyone's comfortable with it. But if you're looking to dominate or be dominated, it can be hot.
3. Loud Sex: "Scream Louder Or I’ll Stop And I Know You Want It."
If you're turned on by your partner's voice, this line will tease them and encourage them to let it all out.
4. Submission: "I’ll Do Whatever You Say. I’m Just Here To Please You."
This can be a major turn-on if you yearn for someone to take control of you.
5. Teasing: "You’re Going To Have To Earn This…"
Build up the anticipation by making each other jump through some hoops to get what you want.
6. Role Playing: "I Said Get Down On Your Knees Now. You’re Lucky To Have Me And I’ll Find Someone Else If You Don’t Do What I Say."
Discuss which scenarios would be hot to each of you, and act out one that appeals to you both.
7. Sensory Deprivation: "Don’t Even Look At Me. Look At The Floor And I’ll Tell You When You Can Look Up."
Taking away someone's view can make their other sensations that much more intense.
8. Power Play: "I’ll Suck/Spank/Whip/Rub It Harder If You Behave."
If you or your parter likes to be bossed around, this is a fun way to tease each other.
"You need to ensure that communication is ongoing so that you’re consistently checking in with one another," says Dr. Jess. "You also don’t need to get raunchy, kinky, or subversive if you prefer romantic or sweet dirty talk; do what works for you."