Too Cold To Have Sex? Try These 5 Steamy Hacks
Cynthia|Jun. 10, 2019
TAKE A BATH TOGETHER
When the temperatures drop outside, it might be time to head inside and draw a hot bath.
If you and your partner both want to heat up and relax, toss in a moisturizing bath bomb to fizz, bubble, and nourish your dry winter skin. TBH, getting out of a warm bath into a chilly bathroom is the worst, so I'd also suggest having your cozy towels and clothes nearby. The benefit of a moisturizing bath bomb can also be felt hours later, as your skin will feel soft and sexy.
HOT OIL MASSAGE
Everyone loves a good massage, but during the winter months the thought of stripping down might not seem appealing — even to get a good rub! This winter, consider lighting up a massage oil candle, enjoy the delicious aroma, and once the wax melts down, gently drip it onto your partner and treat them to a slow massage. That way they'll stay warm, feel relaxed, and likely willing to return the favor!
PLAY WITH TOYS
If you and your partner haven't experimented with toys in the bedroom before... 'tis the season to give it a try! And since the season also 'tis cold AF, up the ante with a warming vibrator! Yes, they exist. With a consistent and comfortably warm temperature, your orgasm will be hot. You two can also make use of warming lube, which will help you and your honey raise the temperature from chilly to nice and steamy.
CRANK UP THE HEAT
Unless you live in an igloo, your apartment has a thermostat and now is the time to use it! Turn the heat up, or crank up a space heater in your bedroom, and once you and your partner are roasty toasty, you can forget the wintery chill outside and get lost in each other. Another idea could be to toss your comforter into the dryer briefy, then burrow underneath it with your partner — either way, envelop yourselves in heat and get hot, hot, hot!
During the colder winter months, your lacy delicates might be retired to the back of your lingerie drawer as you favor practical and cozy layers. But why not have it both ways? When your partner comes over later, they might not be surprised to see you bundled in sweats, a sweater and warm socks but they will be surprised when you reveal that underneath all that warmth is some sexy lingerie. And don't worry — you can totally leave your socks on.
While I love to spend winter evenings researching tropical vacation destinations with a glass of red wine in hand, I'm all about finding creative ways to stay warm. Hopefully these ideas will help you and your babe keep the fire burning through the winter and heat up the occasional date night — in between Netflix, delivery food, and cozy date nights, of course.