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8 Important Elements of a Marriage to Consider Before Tying the Knot

Ifeanyi ugo

Oct. 14, 2020

In This Article Love and commitment Trust Effective communication Patience and forgiveness Intimacy Selflessness Respect
Healthy and long-lasting relationships go a long way in contributing to a happy and fulfilling life. A relationship is said to enrich our lives and add to our enjoyment of being alive, but we all know that no relationship is perfect.
Some relationships lead to marriage. But before venturing into what you will eventually enjoy (or endure) throughout the rest of your life, some vital elements of a marriage must be considered.
Below are the elements of marriage and things to consider before marriage.
1. Love and commitment
It is crystal clear that love is one of the vital elements of a marriage needed in any form of relationship. This applies to marriage too. Analyzing your feelings and being sure about them are the first few things to do before marriage.
Without you loving your spouse or your spouse loving you (for who you are), the marriage will not last, unfortunately.
Love is putting your spouse or partner above you. Love means making your partner your primary priority, it means they come before anything else.
Before you say “I do,” be sure that you genuinely love your partner, and they love you the way you do.
Commitment is all about staying by your partner’s side, no matter the circumstances. It means going through “thick and thin” with your partner. If you are not committed physically, mentally, and spiritually to your partner, your marriage is heading for “rock-bottom.”
2. Trust
There is nothing to over-emphasize about the importance of trust as one of the essential elements of a marriage. Trust is the most crucial determinant of the health and longevity of a marriage.
If couples can do what they say and say what they do, they create an atmosphere of trust and reliability in knowing their words and actions mean something to their significant other.
What can you do before marriage to build trust? Well,  before you marry, learn to avoid baseless arguments. This is so because couples that rely on each other can both breathe a sigh of relief to know their partner has their back.
3. Effective communication
How to know each other before marriage?
By now, you should know that effective communication is one of the crucial elements of marriage. A bridge in the communication structure of a marriage is what often leads to divorce .
You are in a healthy marriage when you can openly express your deep feelings and avoid burying hurt or anger. There are various things to know about each other before marriage, and communication is a great tool.
Both of you tend to deal with situations as they come up more effectively without wasting any time. It is a sign you are in a healthy relationship if and your partner is on the same page. No partner in a relationship should feel shy or timid about communicating their feelings at any point.
Neither of you should have seconds thoughts about sharing your needs, desires, pain points, and thoughts.
4. Patience and forgiveness
Nobody is perfect. Your partner is bound to make some mistakes, decisions, and statements that will upset you. Sometimes, you will be annoyed about how your partner acts or treats you, but you have to be patient enough to forgive them.
If you communicate effectively with your partner, you will be able to see things from your partner’s perspective and then forgive them.
Patience and forgiveness will always remain the essential elements of a marriage. Understanding couples learn to show unending patience and forgiveness to their partner. You should humbly admit your faults and do not expect perfection from your partner.
Do not bring up your partner’s past errors to hold your partner hostage. It destroys marriages!
6. Intimacy
One of the important elements of marriage is the intimacy that lays the foundation for any marriage or romantic relationship.
Intimacy is not just physical. Being intimate also has an emotional aspect. So, what to know before marriage? What are the things to learn before marriage to understand your partner better and establish intimacy?
Talk openly with your partner. For things to talk about before marriage,  you can discuss your needs and desires as the first step to establishing intimacy.
How to courtship? Establish emotional and psychological intimacy, and you have a way to go!
7. Selflessness
Selfishness in a relationship is like a wrecking ball that shakes the foundation of a marriage.
Most marriages break done due to badly managed marriage finances, lack of commitment, instances of infidelity , or incompatibility, but selfishness in relationships can lead to resentment, pushing the relationship to the verge of extinction.
Selfish people are dedicated only to themselves; they show little patience, and never learn how to be successful spouses.
Give your hopes, beliefs, dreams, and your entire life to your partner. And begin to live a blissful life together.
8. Respect
Respect can only exist in the relationship if there are love and understanding in the relationship. If you truly understand your partner and accept their values, thoughts, and choices, you know you respect them.
You can show respect to your partner is by speaking thoughtfully, being grateful for their contributions, keeping a positive attitude, and so forth.
In the video below, there are some eyeopening signs of disrespect in the romantic relationship. Check them out so that you can avoid them in your relationship and keep it healthy.
Summarily, we need to value our marriages, treat your partner with great care and love, and invest in your marriage by being patient and trustworthy.
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