Love is a universal experience, yet how it is expressed can vary dramatically depending on cultural norms, values, and traditions.

While Dr. Gary Chapman’s concept of the five love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—applies across different societies, the ways in which they manifest can be deeply shaped by the cultural context. In Ghana, love is often demonstrated in a uniquely rich and communal way, where familial bonds and respect play key roles in how affection is communicated. So, what do these love languages look like when viewed through the lens of Ghanaian culture?

When it comes to expressing love, words in Ghana often carry great weight, but not always in the way one might expect. While public declarations of affection can be less common, respect and praise are fundamental aspects of communication. Expressions like "You are a good woman," or "God bless you for your support," are frequently used to affirm one’s worth and contributions.

Ghanaians also have a rich tradition of using proverbs to communicate wisdom, respect, and love. Proverbs like "Obi nkyere abofra kɔtɔ yɛ wuo” (loosely translated as "No one tells a child that the crab is dead") reflect the deep, often indirect, ways in which affection and love are expressed. These words of affirmation may not always be flashy, but they are deeply rooted in honouring the other person’s value and reinforcing the importance of the relationship.