When it comes to hunks of WWE, few hold a candle to 39-year-old Roman Reigns. Born Leati Joseph Anoaʻi, the wrestling persona that he’s cultivated over the last several years has made him a household name for wrestling fans all over the world—but don’t be fooled by his tough-as-nails performances and wince-worthy matchups. Outside of the ring, Roman Reigns is a doting husband to his wife, Galina Becker and a proud father of five. Here, read all about his relationship and marriage, and the family he and his wife of over a decade have built together since first meeting back in college.

It was at the Georgia Institute of Technology when Reigns and Becker first crossed paths, and the two became fast friends before their relationship blossomed into romance. As the wrestling superstar remembers their early days together, the two were inseparable, he shared back in 2016 on WWE Unfiltered. The couple has certainly evolved from the era of being young and in love, in which no one in the world mattered but them, having endured evolving careers, parenthood and even serious health issues, but Reigns shared that there’s no true secret to a happy marriage. “It’s hard work. You have to know how to give and take,” he explained.