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Girlfriend (23) rarely wants sex with me (23m) nor let's me masturbate.

Phloxy Gem Drey

Sept. 19, 2019

Hello, Sorry for my English and the bad formatting because I'm on mobile.
So my problem is that my girlfriend (23) and I (23) rarely have sex with each other. Every time we do it I feel kinda bad because I have to "start" the sex. During our entire relationship she was never the person who started sex. I often feel like I am the reason she has such a low sex drive and she often tells me that she it is because she takes the pill. We are together for over 7 years now and I feel really insecure. Additionally she doesn't let me masturbate if she doesn't want to have sex or if she isn't home. I feel really bad when I think about doing it to myself. I mean I know it isn't normal but I don't know what to do. I love her but I don't know how I can fix this. Whenever we had sex she never made any sounds and often when I ask for sex she is just in the bed playing with her mobile phone. I often feel rejected. When I talked to her about these things she says that I shouldn't worry and that it's okay. I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I even feel a bit bad for even posting this.
And sorry for the kinda messy text.
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